UFO!!!
It is my firm belief that if u truly understand and practice unconditional love/friendship (UFO) u can have incredibly deep friendships. So when one says deep relationship it need not always necessarily mean physical intimacy. The quality of intimacy is the heart of the matter in a UFO relationship! It may or may not lead to physical intimacy but even if it does, it’s far more beautiful as it’s between consenting, mature adults sharing truly and therefore transcends to a far higher point! It doesn’t just STOP at physical intimacy! Most of the mankind gets stuck at this very point! The point of transcendence!! Moreover UFO is vast. It encompasses all beautiful and platonic relationships too and just zippppps past physical intimacy!
I am fortunate to practice UFO with a few precious people!
My UFO's (U= UNCONDITIONAL, F= FRIENDSHIP, O=OK ALWAYS! ..NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO AND MORE IMPORTANTLY WHAT THEY DON'T DO! Irrespective of what they don’t do as per my expectations I would stand by them! In fact UFO by its very nature has to be a ONE-WAY STREET!! Since what you give is unconditional and what u expect is only one thing and that is “NO_Thing”!!! It doesn’t matter to you what age ur UFO reaches or is in right now and how he/she could look when they grow old.. in fact it is a matter beyond time, space and gender! That’s UFO for you!!!
My UFO's being the special people that they are; one would expect that I would be possessive of them! but in fact it’s exactly the opposite! "possessiveness is poisonous", can anyone possess the sky? each person by himself and without us is as vast the sky! Give your friend the freedom that every person fully deserves!
UFO as explained above is subject to copy right. Am committed to turn it into a website, may be a community and or a workshop for relationships!
It All depends upon how much and how unconditionally u love your own self ;) if u don't love and respect your own self how can u love and respect the other?And yes! it is magical and becomes damn easy to get anything u want! Anything you want is yours for the asking when the opposite sex is the one motivating u!! He/ she can do anything and get u anywhere u want but again everything boils down again to u, how much we r willing to let go! Let go of what? our egos!!
Friday, October 29, 2010
Monday, December 7, 2009
Island of feelings
Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all the others......, including Love.
One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean.
So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave.
Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island until the last possible moment.
When the island was almost totally under water, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help.
Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?" Richness answered, "I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you."
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel. Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."
I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."
Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you. "Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."
Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you. "But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him."
Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way."
Whoz that ?????
Love realized how much she owed the elder. Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?" "It was Time", Knowledge answered. "But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked.
Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."
Many things in life are probably a matter of time………. Maybe we just have to wait for the right time.
Friends ;) :)...MMMuuuah!!
Sharing ......
sumthin' PROFOUND....
A couple of days ago ...
in pure spontaniety i jus picked up dis book...
Within 2 days some 1 very precious and for whom i have tremendous respect spoke to me about dat very book..she said i have been reading dis book since over 2 years over and over again and no oder Book...i thought...well!!...i had not yet begun...
yesterday nite i started reading da first few pages...all i can say dat this Book is wriien by an Enlightened Person!! ...
its No Less dan the Bhagavad Gita or the Bibke or Quaran...
in fact it is more lucid,direct and understandable!!
The Book is by Eckhart Tolle: THE POWER OF NOW
My humble veneration to this Spiritual master.........
I Luv u Eckhart....MMMMuuuuaaaaah
ur My UFO 19 ;)
da Master Speaketh :)...
"Love is never a relationship; love is relating. It is always a river, flowing, unending. Love knows no full stop; the honeymoon begins but never ends. It is not like a novel that starts at a certain point and ends at a certain point. It is an ongoing phenomenon. Lovers end, love continues– it is a continuum. It is a verb, not a noun.
- LOVE OSHO
One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean.
So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave.
Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island until the last possible moment.
When the island was almost totally under water, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help.
Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?" Richness answered, "I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you."
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel. Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."
I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."
Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you. "Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."
Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you. "But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him."
Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way."
Whoz that ?????
Love realized how much she owed the elder. Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?" "It was Time", Knowledge answered. "But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked.
Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."
Many things in life are probably a matter of time………. Maybe we just have to wait for the right time.
Friends ;) :)...MMMuuuah!!
Sharing ......
sumthin' PROFOUND....
A couple of days ago ...
in pure spontaniety i jus picked up dis book...
Within 2 days some 1 very precious and for whom i have tremendous respect spoke to me about dat very book..she said i have been reading dis book since over 2 years over and over again and no oder Book...i thought...well!!...i had not yet begun...
yesterday nite i started reading da first few pages...all i can say dat this Book is wriien by an Enlightened Person!! ...
its No Less dan the Bhagavad Gita or the Bibke or Quaran...
in fact it is more lucid,direct and understandable!!
The Book is by Eckhart Tolle: THE POWER OF NOW
My humble veneration to this Spiritual master.........
I Luv u Eckhart....MMMMuuuuaaaaah
ur My UFO 19 ;)
da Master Speaketh :)...
"Love is never a relationship; love is relating. It is always a river, flowing, unending. Love knows no full stop; the honeymoon begins but never ends. It is not like a novel that starts at a certain point and ends at a certain point. It is an ongoing phenomenon. Lovers end, love continues– it is a continuum. It is a verb, not a noun.
- LOVE OSHO
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