Friday, October 29, 2010

UFO!!!
It is my firm belief that if u truly understand and practice unconditional love/friendship (UFO) u can have incredibly deep friendships. So when one says deep relationship it need not always necessarily mean physical intimacy. The quality of intimacy is the heart of the matter in a UFO relationship! It may or may not lead to physical intimacy but even if it does, it’s far more beautiful as it’s between consenting, mature adults sharing truly and therefore transcends to a far higher point! It doesn’t just STOP at physical intimacy! Most of the mankind gets stuck at this very point! The point of transcendence!! Moreover UFO is vast. It encompasses all beautiful and platonic relationships too and just zippppps past physical intimacy!

I am fortunate to practice UFO with a few precious people!
My UFO's (U= UNCONDITIONAL, F= FRIENDSHIP, O=OK ALWAYS! ..NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO AND MORE IMPORTANTLY WHAT THEY DON'T DO! Irrespective of what they don’t do as per my expectations I would stand by them! In fact UFO by its very nature has to be a ONE-WAY STREET!! Since what you give is unconditional and what u expect is only one thing and that is “NO_Thing”!!! It doesn’t matter to you what age ur UFO reaches or is in right now and how he/she could look when they grow old.. in fact it is a matter beyond time, space and gender! That’s UFO for you!!!

My UFO's being the special people that they are; one would expect that I would be possessive of them! but in fact it’s exactly the opposite! "possessiveness is poisonous", can anyone possess the sky? each person by himself and without us is as vast the sky! Give your friend the freedom that every person fully deserves!

UFO as explained above is subject to copy right. Am committed to turn it into a website, may be a community and or a workshop for relationships!

It All depends upon how much and how unconditionally u love your own self ;) if u don't love and respect your own self how can u love and respect the other?And yes! it is magical and becomes damn easy to get anything u want! Anything you want is yours for the asking when the opposite sex is the one motivating u!! He/ she can do anything and get u anywhere u want but again everything boils down again to u, how much we r willing to let go! Let go of what? our egos!!